She is 11
Macey turned 11 this month.
I still cannot believe we have a tween. I can believe it because she acts like one all the time, but I just cannot accept that we have gotten this old.
Macey has always been my best sidekick and fellow adventurer.
Glad this hasn't changed much.
And I hope it never changes, especially as we are creeping towards the unknown and scary territory of teenage years.
Macey's birthday fell on Super Bowl Sunday this year, which was fun, because she was actually born on Super Bowl Sunday. We got to the hospital right as the Super Bowl was starting and she was born right when it was over. It was fun to reminisce with her about the day she was born.
Started with donuts.
and dinner was her favorites of homemade Mac & Cheese, homemade fries and wings.
Trina and TJ came over to help us celebrate, Trina captured this perfect picture of Macey with her Oreo Cheesecake for me. I for sure wasn't this cute when I was 11.
Since we did a big party last year, we kept it simple this year.
We did a last min. pizza and movie get together. $5 luxury seats to see The Greatest Showman.
funny, but scary, story. Macey was being super silly and entertaining her friends. Macey can be so quiet and reserved, that I highly encourage her crazy silly to come out. So, she was sucking helium out of balloons to show her friends how your voice changes. Kids were dying laughing and she was loving it. Then she sucked in too much helium and passed out! Luckily she was not freaked out and thought it was funny, so then all her friends thought it was funny and life lesson learned. You need oxygen.
Kids loved the luxury seats and I spent most of the movie glancing over at Macey to make sure she was still conscious. :)
Macey loves all things Harry Potter and Ravenclaw.
Favorite color is still white. Wants to be a robotics engineer or the CFO of a company (they just went to Jr. Achievement City in SLC and she was the CFO of a University and LOVED it)
. Loves school, loves her friends, loves to listen to music on her touch, loves to sing and dance, and loves to read.
While I still miss this girl:
I am finding I am enjoying tween life too.
(Watching Anne of Green Gables together while doing an insane cat puzzle)
May was a whirl of fun and chaos.
Macey finished up the last of her Scera Performances.
She had her dance recital with The Emmie's
And then her Showteam Showcase, where all the acting classes performed 2 of their pieces.
Sunny, but not hot weather, was perfect for hitting up a few of our favorite spots before school was out.
We love this part of the Provo River Trail. It is usually pretty empty and there's a bunch of cool places to stop and explore.
We had so much fun, we decided to go after school the next week, so all the kids could enjoy it.
Didn't take into account how much higher the river would be!! It was crazy stressful, but our scare tactics worked (we told the kids they would most likely die if they fell in...which was the truth), so they kept their distance.
At least the outing ended on a peaceful note feeding the horses in the parking lot, a safe distance from the raging river. Thanksgiving Point Gardens
We missed the tulip festival this year, but I didn't mind too much.
There were still a lot of tulips in bloom and barely any people. Farm Country
It was crazy busy with preschool field trips, so after 30 min we walked up to get some icecream.
Crew was not pleased to walk one block and pretty much screamed and whined the whole way.
Until we got to the little gardens where he told me, "mom, I forgot how beautiful it was here." No more crying after that. BYU
campus is one of my happy places.
And if I enter the Cougareat, I cannot leave without a hot loaf of bread with honey butter. Takes me back. :)
It's pretty much just constant friends and playing around here when the sun is out.
lots of bug catching
. bike ridingpark playing. eating
And I've even been allowing children inside! This is not normal for me, but it's gone fairly well.
We've even attempted a few art projects.
and bug drawing (for a bug club meeting)
And just random shenanigans with our best neighbors.
Sometimes though we hideout and have lazy mornings and pretend we don't hear the knocks on our door.
And this would be a typical Saturday morning around here. These 2 playing video games in their underware. Living the dream.
Speaking of underware...Ruby earned a trip to Chuck E. Cheese for being potty trained.
And we squeezed in our last few errands together before everyone was out of school.
She seems so sweet and content in the shopping cart here, but not 5 min. later she determined I was taking too long and started throwing items out of my cart, biting my hands, throwing her shoes. It's always an exciting time with Ruby.
I actually had a great mother's day this year. Thanks to these 4 and Paul.
Got my picture. Got to read. And got to eat good food that I didn't make.
We invited ourselves on the Rensink's date to "Me First and The Gimmie Gimmies".
So fun!! Good music and good company. But, it reminded me how much I hate mosh pits and I am grateful for the security guard that Julianne and I spent much of our time cowering behind.
And we've been trying to adopt a fairly minimalistic lifestyle around here, but I cannot get this girl on board!
here's hoping we can get it figured out this summer.
For the first time in motherhood I think I actually over scheduled us!! We had soccer, dance, karate, musical theater, track, ward party planning, potty training, sports camp, teacher appreciation, remodel, and then all the normal things!
So, glad I already promised myself no summer camps for the kids! I am already worn out. Sport Camp
This was Miles' 2nd year and can I tell you, huge difference! There was still some crying and whining before hand, but once we got there he was a champ.
Last year I think he spent half the time on the wall or crying to me.
It was good for me to see some improvement and that it really is worth pushing and forcing this kid to get out of his comfort zone.
season also finished! Still haven't decided if we will do it again, I am tired.
But once again, huge difference from last year.
The one thing Miles was most excited about this month was his First Grade program
He practiced every day for weeks. I had to make a playlist of the all the songs so he could practice in the car. He rocked it.
Macey lived at the Scera Theater
towards the end of the month. Between classes, rehearsals and the performances...it was a lot.
Her Showteam Class did "The Jungle Book" She was Kaa and a bumble bee.
And seriously, we have a tween
on our hands.
Georgia put hair extentions in her braid. :)
Two of her favorite things. Listening to music and facetiming with Kaylin.
I can already picture the teenage days ahead of us. Easter
neighborhood egg hunt was a success.
as was easter in the middle of the remodel. It at least gave us some new places to hide baskets.
And Ruby got to wear my favorite dress from Macey's toddler days.
I had to help plan the Spring Ward Party
. I'm not a big ward activity attendee, so this was a lot outside of my comfort zone.
We decided on a Spring Fling Dance.
I'd say it was a success. And my kids were just happy we finally let them go to a ward party. :)
Other Exciting happenings around here:
Paul bought a nintendo switch
It has been all Zelda and Mario Cart.
Miles formed a Bug Club
. It has been hilarious. He has them earning rewards based on how many bugs they've caught. They even earned a party with treats and a movie.
Ruby and Crew have joined in on the bug hunting, although they are not official members of "The Bug Club".
We made Teacher Appreciation
Posters. It was heaven not being in charge and only having to decorate 2 doors. Macey and Miles have the absolute best teachers this year, so it was fun having an excuse to bring in their favorite treats and let them know how wonderful they are.
The most exciting event this month (besides the remodel, which will be another post), was that I had the genius idea to potty train
It's gone about as well I expected.
All the kids helped though, so that made it nice. And Ruby even pooped while Miles was watching her and he wiped her bum, washed her hands, and gave her a sticker. I was a bit shocked when I came downstairs to check on them. Looks like Miles is more responsible that I give him credit for.
She's pretty well potty trained. But, she's stubborn and busy and has no desire to please. Which means we still have accidents from time to time and I have to remind much more than I did any of the other kids.
but I am seeing the light and just have to push through.
first one in double digits
I cannot believe we have reached the milestone of having a kid in the double digits.
The occasion has made me more sentimental than normal and has caused lots of reflection on years past.
Macey has kind of always been the best.
She was the best toddler. Always dressing up, accessorizing, dancing, throwing parties...pretty much my entertainment.
She has always been my best helper and side kick. It was funny looking through her birthday pictures and seeing how obvious it was which ones I was sick and prego during. She has been through a lot with me. Glad we are over that phase. :)
and seriously, the change from 9 to 10?!? Part of it, I am sure, is because I have FINALLY let her keep her hair long. I am learning to relinquish control. slowly learning.
Her birthday started like it always has...with donuts.
Then it was all shopkins and Lea Accessories. Nana and Opa got her a real pearl necklace too and she was in love.
Macey highly dislikes cake and loves mint icecream. So, I tried my hand at a mint chocolate chip icecream cake. She approved and I think we have found her new birthday request.
She was not pleased Ruby wanted to help blow out the candles.
She knew just where she wanted her party, Nickel City.
lots of good friends,
and prizes.It is good to be Macey.
Paul also took her and 2 friends (tajen and bree) to the BYU basketball game on her birthday. He ignored my request though and took zero pictures. Pictures or not, she said she had the best time ever!
And I came across this picture from when Macey, Maddy and libby were little and could not resist a comparison.
They've been friends the last 10 years and I hope it continues.
and side note, I think we had more toys in our house when Macey was our only child, than we have now.
While I am sad she's growing up, I am also excited for what's ahead of her.
She's intelligent, kind, compassionate, feisty, independent, and genuine.
There are adventures ahead for this girl and I can't wait to share them with her.
BAck to school....Again
We have been back in the swing of things for a few weeks now and it's been going smoother than I anticipated.
This summer was quite crazy and for the first time ever
, I was actually a little bit happy for the kids to be back in school. Miles really wore me down this summer and having him in full day school has been quite refreshing.
We had our annual back to school dinner.
We got home from Bear Lake the day before school started, so I tried to get the kids to do Happy Meals for the back to school dinner. Shockingly, they refused, and wanted what we always have, brown bag lunches. Thank goodness I picked something simple from the beginning and didn't copy all those crazy pinterest people.
Macey was all excitement to go back to school, just like always.
She has an amazing teacher and Macey was very happy to find out her new teacher loves Harry Potter just like her.
I cannot believe she is in 4th grade. Like really, can not believe it. This should not be happening.
They did some assessments before school started and I was a bit nervous for Miles, remembering how horribly things went last year. This year was a huge improvement! While I was the only parent that actually had to go in with their first grader instead of waiting in the hall, he at least spoke and communicated with the teachers and they were as kind and patient as could be.
Miles told me he was only going to go to the first 2 days of school and the last 2 days. Luckily, he came home loving school and has gone back everyday since.
I'm not saying he goes happily everyday. It is still a battle most mornings to get the kid fed and ready, but we are getting there and I will not give up. Homework is another story and another battle that I don't always have the energy to fight. :)
Then there is Crew.
This kid has been dying to go to school His day finally came and it was all smiles and excitement. Ruby had to get in on his photo session.
He went into preschool as happy as could be, posed for a picture, and then went and read books with the rest of the kids. I didn't even know what to do with myself, it was the first time in a long time I wasn't actually needed. I didn't even break a sweat. What a difference from Miles.
The only issue we had at preschool drop off was Ruby thought she should get to ride in Crew's seat, since she's the big kid home with me now. So, after dragging a kicking and screaming Ruby into her seat, I actually was sweating and it felt like a normal school drop off for me. :)
These kids have the most amazing teachers this year and I am so grateful. You cannot replace a great teacher and I am thankful everyday for these teachers and the time and love they give these kids.
And I am so glad I get this crazy one all to myself for a few more years.
And, I need to report, this was the first year I did not cry sending the kids back to school! I am getting better at this letting go thing.